Moving into aged care has given me my life back

January 08, 2025

Victor and his “best friend” and physiotherapy aide Clark Ruiz at North Turramurra Residential Care

When Victor Daoud moved into aged care, he thought it marked the end of his life … little did he know it was just the beginning. 

The unfamiliar environment of North Turramurra Residential Care intensified his fear of leaving his room, particularly after spending so many years living alone at home with severe anxiety.

But everything changed very quickly when the 82-year-old met Clark Ruiz, a dedicated physiotherapy aide who made it his mission to help Victor reclaim his independence. 

Each day, Clark visited Victor, providing not only physical support but also emotional encouragement. 

The journey was slow and challenging. Initially, Clark’s visits were simply about building trust, and he would sit and listen to his fears, and offer words of comfort.

Gradually, Clark encouraged Victor to take small steps. The first milestone was reaching the door of his room and eventually the hallway.

Once a daunting expanse, it slowly became his path to freedom.

 Today Victor beams and says Clark has “got me walking again and has given me my life back”.

“Moving into Turramurra and meeting Clark has completely changed my life,” he beamed.

“Before I moved here, I spent all my time alone and didn’t feel like I needed to interact   with others, I just sat surrounded by four walls not walking anywhere or seeing anyone.

 “But then I came here and met Clark pretty much straight away, and my life has completely turned around, he makes me feel valued, safe and cared for.

“Today my favourite thing is leaving my room and walking around the home, enjoying the fresh air, greeting fellow residents but mostly talking to Clark.

“I especially love it when he brings his guitar as a treat and we sit on the lounge outside and sing, he’s become my best friend.”

Clark, too, cherishes his friendship with Victor and the time they spend together.

 “I remember when he first moved in here and was reluctant to leave his room, but over time we built a connection, and he started to trust me,” he said.

“I guess that’s what I love about working in aged care, spending time with the residents, hearing their stories, and building friendships. 

“There are always lots of laughs, but sometimes tears too.

“Today Victor and I walk at least three days a week, and I really do love sitting outside spending time with him.

 “He’s had such an interesting life and getting to know him and his story has been a privilege.

“Knowing I’ve made a profound difference in his life makes this job incredibly rewarding and why I’ve stayed here for almost 20 years.”

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